If girl likes boy or boy likes girl its not enough to build any type of relationship between them. Because how the fuck both might know it?
Playing the mainstream game.
In eastern Europe main play is when boy comes to girl, says a compliment and asks if she is interested to meet after. Girl gives the number and seed is planted.
How boy chooses a girl?
- She looks nice and smells nice. Our dick is the best compass.
Girls can tell that its love, sympathy or some other BS. Those are hormones all the time.
How girl picks a boy?
- It’s a messed up system of beliefs and red lines even not worth analysis.
Can say you that boy has to look clean and feel comfortable with himself. Rest is built on girls past experience if she doesn’t know what she wants.
If much simple about 90% of people in healthy environment.
When girl looks on a boy she sees a full length drama series of 12 seasons.
When man looks on new girl, he sees 30 min porn clip.
This is the place where first conflict comes. Totally different needs.
If your not the girl or boy of that kind and know what you want, amazing you’re the 10% of open-minded people that at least think what they want from life.
What you want then?
- Passione sex
- Trophy for show-off
- Person that inspires
- Those pink shades that give you feeling of butterflies in belly
Or something else, or all of it at same time (not real in monogamy)
When you know it, you start to see magic happening in your life.
It’s like magnet!
When I walk on streets without any purpose I see few women lookin at me, when I go for the kink, 3-5 times increment of smiles on women faces. When I go with love vibe, different types of women give me signals.
Magnet or just my view at the moment of my needs, it doesn’t matter.
My point is that if you want to have something, at least be honest to yourself go out and take it.
In 2017th august I went on my first solo travel to Portugal. Want to share with you some ideas about fears and doubts that I had, and think most of people still have. Still was low on budget those days to go fancy.
1. Someone needs to take care of me!
I did my homework before going to Lisbon and got to Couchsurfing.com, community seemed nice, still if you’re a man you have to take these things. So planned route and asked some people to host me. First time spent two nights with Jose, amazing man walked with his wife thousands of kilometers from Scandinavia till Lisbon by sea shore.. Had fantastic time time. Still next host was a gay, and I understood it before night to get at his, so felt really uncomfortable cuz texts went “service for service”. And shit…
Had no chances to get hosted by women, maybe because I had no reviews from hosts about me.
After used booking.com a lot and after in Tenerife travel people said that last night listings on Airbnb are like half off.
Im getting bored from cities after 2-3 days. So simply got myself a tent. So much nice views and you cant imagine the feeling spending nights by ocean, in fresh woods or eye-porn fields with mountains surrounding you. Even if your not romantic type, snap, the stars…
2. I will get robbed, raped or sold as a slave on black markets.
You might if you stay downtown or in creepy places. I have slept even in Sintra (Portugal) central parks children playground with two amazing girls from Couchsurfing, and no one gave a shit. Maybe the old lady in the morning looked creeped out, since her kids wanted to swing on roller-coaster. Environment everywhere is safe, even when police woke my oped once in Natural Park in the morning knocking on my tent, I just got a talk with them that im not allowed to stay here.
It’s safe, even to hitch-hike for transport on the road. Sometimes people even changed their routes just to get me to my destination. Simply because they understand – tourists bring money!
3. Comfort zone.
Those are unknown inner reasons for most of us. Don’t worry brother or sister, one day of travel will bring you more than one month of stay at home. Its like universes, God, Allah, nature invites you and motivates your curiosity. Was the toughest one for me, even that I understood with my brain that everything will be charming. Of course there were also bad surprises, still, those just made me stronger, they don’t kill. …maybe just old you and the fuck you don’t want to lose your old personality.
For me a bonus that I discovered was that I can train acting, be different person each day, nobody knows me, I can be a swag or talk to homeless people, no one will judge you. And the people that come in to your life. The willing just to talk to each backpacker that you meet on your route. Its love! And hope to meet them again cuz world is smaller than you think.
Go with the flow, heart will lead you.
1. World changes fast.
My parents worked in one company for 10 years, other friend parents worked for 20, and even some worked whole their life climbing career ladders till retirement. It might work yesterday, still today if you want to make most of it you have to update your skills and talents daily, its good, for those that enjoy self-growth.
2. Social studies.
Have you heard something about “Basic Income”? Shortly it’s a governmental or non-profit organization systems where people get basic amount of income monthly to pay bills for house and food. Idea is really trendy popular. Even slackers (lazy people) after some time of sitting by Netflix with beers had enough and started to give more time to their hobbies, health and travel. If money aint the thing why we work, what is it then?
3. Failure as new beginning.
People do overreact if they lose their jobs or lose on their projects. Shit, you grow! There is no white and black. Its just a fantastic experience. Have a drink or a smoke and quit nagging move one. It is a blessing to start something new without knowing where you will get after.
4. Rational vs emotional.
Yeah, for me its tough to find balance. Still, have you noticed that the elder you get the more “super-rational” you change. It is like crime over your soul. When soul says, I want to ride a motorbike. Old people brain tells – Its dangerous, you want to become an organ donor? Or just fucking skip the ice cream on warm day, cuz bitch is to lazy to make 50 squats later. Still, when were young, we feel our bodies and “see” what we need.
5. I should get more serious.
Especially when my relatives get 30. Damn, some of them even starting to feel hopeless because they don’t have a steady job, are not married and don’t have first child. You’ll always have time for this. Make a choice – You want to have an enjoyable life or live how society (or governments) think its right to live? Quoting Munchhausen – All the stupid things in the world are done with serious face expression. Smile, gentlemen, smile!
Take care bros and sisters.